Name: Co-Parenting After Divorcing a Narcissist
Brand: Isabella Francis
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Co-Parenting After Divorcing a Narcissist

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If this sounds familiar, this book was written for you.

Your ex doesn't follow the rules. The custody agreement means nothing to them. Your kids come home upset and you don't know what happened. Standard co-parenting advice assumes two cooperative parents. This book doesn't.

This book gives you the framework, the language, and the documented strategies to protect your children...without getting pulled back into the chaos.

Written after Isabella's own experience, grounded in research, and organized around the moments that feel most impossible.

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How will you find a way to make sure your child isn’t impacted by your narcissistic ex?

Want to ensure that you take the right steps at a difficult time of transition?

You’re someone who wants to make sure your child has the support, love and care they need to grow up and become a fully functional adult. You’re also someone acutely aware of the hold a narcissist can have over you. After all, you left your partner for a very good reason.

Now that you’ve broken free there’s something that will have shocked you: they still have a hold over you! They’re still involved in your life in a big way because you have a child together. Now you have to co-parent in two different households and find a way to move forwards for the benefit of your child.

The secret is to trust that there’s a solution, even when you feel like giving up all hope because of the completely unreasonable behavior of your ex. You just have to stay on track and keep doing the right thing. How do I know? I’ve just finished reading THE book on it…

“Co-Parenting after Divorcing a Narcissist” is for anyone who wants to ensure their children are looked after the right way, no matter how nasty your divorce has been.

Put all of these pieces of the puzzle into the right places and you’ll find that things start to improve a whole lot faster than you were expecting. Ideal if you want to make sure things run as smoothly as possible.

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This is the moment you have to step forward, claim it, and read it. Do these three little things right now and everything will start to turn around.

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What this book changes

From surviving pickups to parallel parenting with confidence.

Right now

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Every pickup is a potential confrontation

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Kids come home dysregulated and you don't know why

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Every email from your ex derails your whole day

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The custody agreement means nothing to them

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You feel like you're losing ground every week

After this book

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Pickups are structured, predictable, grey-rock enforced

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You have language for what your kids are experiencing

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BIFF framework handles every email in under 5 minutes

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You've documented everything. You're prepared.

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You parent independently — not in reaction to them

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Every line on the right is a direct outcome from a specific chapter in this book.

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How the book gets you there

Ten chapters. Each one built around a moment you've already lived through.

Every outcome on the right side of the section above comes from a specific chapter here.

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Chapter 1 – 2

What makes a narcissist different — and why it matters

Delivers on:

You parent independently — not in reaction to them

Why standard advice fails and what replaces it. How to recognise the patterns before they escalate into something that ends up in a court filing.

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Chapter 3 – 4

The Grey Rock Method — in practice

Delivers on:

Pickups are structured, predictable, grey-rock enforced

How to become uninteresting to your ex without withdrawing from your children or escalating conflict. Scripts for the most common manipulative situations.

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Chapter 5

BIFF Communication — word for word

Delivers on:

BIFF framework handles every email in under 5 minutes

Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm. Real email templates for every impossible thread. How to stop getting baited into arguments that appear in court filings.

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Chapter 6

Documenting everything — the right way

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You've documented everything. You're prepared.

What to record, how to store it, and how to present it if it goes back to court. The documentation mistakes most parents make that damage their own case.

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Chapter 7 – 8

Protecting your children's mental health

Delivers on:

Your kids feel safe with you

Age-appropriate ways to talk about what's happening. How to create stability when everything else feels chaotic.

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Chapter 9 – 10

Working with lawyers and the court system

Delivers on:

You know what to expect in court

How to prepare for hearings, what judges look for, and how to present yourself effectively when dealing with a high-conflict co-parent.

Book details

Physical specifications

A full-length paperback — not a summary or workbook.

Format Paperback

Pages 202 pages

Dimensions 6 × 0.46 × 9 in

Weight 12.8 oz

Published January 27, 2023

Publisher EMPIRE Publishing

ISBN-13 978-1956283549

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What you're getting

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202 pages of practical guidance

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Standard 6×9 — reads like a real book, not a pamphlet

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Professionally published by EMPIRE Publishing

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Not a summary — not a workbook. The full thing.

Before you click away

I've tried books about this before. They didn't help.

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My situation is too complicated for a book.

This book was written from inside a complicated situation. Isabella didn't simplify — she mapped it. Grey rock, BIFF, and documentation chapters exist because generic advice fails.

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I don't have the energy to read right now.

Each chapter targets a specific moment — a threatening text, a custody pickup, a school call. Open to the chapter that fits today. No need to read cover to cover.

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I've already tried everything.

Most strategies assume your ex will cooperate. This book doesn't. It teaches parallel parenting — protecting your kids and your peace without needing them to change.

You can't win the war if you keep losing every battle. You need to wake up and step back into your life — for yourself, and for your children.

— Isabella Francis, Co-Parenting After Divorcing a Narcissist

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